<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Tandli — Blog</title><description>Practical writing on visual schedules, routines, life skills, and supporting autistic and neurodivergent children.</description><link>https://tandli.app/</link><language>en</language><item><title>Why your voice matters in a visual schedule</title><link>https://tandli.app/blog/why-your-voice-matters-in-a-visual-schedule/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://tandli.app/blog/why-your-voice-matters-in-a-visual-schedule/</guid><description>Text-to-speech is convenient, but a parent&apos;s own recorded voice can be regulating for autistic children. Here&apos;s why familiar voice matters in a routine — and how to use it.</description><pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>voice</category><category>visual schedules</category><category>autism</category></item><item><title>First-then: the two-word phrase that defuses transitions</title><link>https://tandli.app/blog/first-then-the-two-word-phrase-that-defuses-transitions/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://tandli.app/blog/first-then-the-two-word-phrase-that-defuses-transitions/</guid><description>Transitions are where routines fall apart. &apos;First, then&apos; is a tiny reframe that turns standoffs into calm, predictable sequences. Here&apos;s how and why it works.</description><pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>first-then</category><category>transitions</category><category>strategies</category></item><item><title>How to teach life skills without overwhelm (backward chaining)</title><link>https://tandli.app/blog/how-to-teach-life-skills-without-overwhelm/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://tandli.app/blog/how-to-teach-life-skills-without-overwhelm/</guid><description>Teaching daily living skills to an autistic child? Backward chaining lets every attempt end in success. Here&apos;s how to use it, plus how to keep sensory barriers from stalling progress.</description><pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>life skills</category><category>task analysis</category><category>occupational therapy</category></item></channel></rss>